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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

First Race Post Chemo

On October 12, Jason was out of town, I had our wonderful sitter come at 6:30 am, and I ran my first race since being diagnosed with cancer.  It was around the Marietta Square and it was for breast cancer.  My breast (yes, that is spelled that way on purpose) friend, Traci, was the leader of our crazy team and we had a blast.  She made me a tutu and I ran the whole 5K in it.



One of my friends asked me, after reading my last post, why I wasn't going to run races for breast cancer.  I don't believe I said that.  I just said that I am going to make it a point to run races for other diseases besides breast cancer also.  Of course, I will donate and raise awareness.  But besides doing all that, I want to raise awareness for other diseases.

I have started meeting with other survivors once a month so we can vent and talk about how we are feeling with other woman who have been through chemo and the craziness.  I am the only breast cancer survivor.  Through tears, my friend said that it was so frustrating trying to get help because she didn't have the "glorified" disease called breast cancer.  That is when my way of thinking began.  I had so much help.  I had places to go for wigs.  I got free make up and guidance on how to put it on once my eyebrows fall out.  I got tons of free stuff because I had breast cancer.  She was dealing with lymphoma and dealing with it without all the help I got.

It shouldn't be that way.  We both could have died from our diseases.  We both were scared.  We both had to go through chemo.  We both lost all the hair on our bodies.  But she didn't get the same great help I did.  But she should have.

Again, we should share the love.  So I will run races for all diseases.  1 down, how many more to go?

My friend, Kim, and I are running in a half on April 19th.  That just happens to be my birthday so I am super excited.  We think it would be great to get a whole bunch of friends to run with us.  When I ran my first one in 2007, it was because one of my student's little brother was diagnosed with leukemia.  And one of my best friends had been killed in a car accident.  So I ran for both of them.  I ran it with Team and Training and raised money for blood cancers.  I had thought about running one, but just needed a little push.  So here is your push.  Who wants to do it with us?

http://www.active.com/cumming-ga/running/georgia-peach-jam-half-marathon-and-5k-2014?

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Pay It Forward, Breast Cancer Awareness Month

For ten days now, I have been bombarded by pink.  Pink ribbons, pink T-shirts, pink socks, pink drawings on car windows, etc, etc, etc.  It seems like every store is asking if you want to donate to breast cancer research before they tell you your total.  I was even asked if I wanted to donate to current patients.  I wanted to scream, "I am a patient!"  I feel that it is all a little too much.

Everyone knows what the pink ribbon means.  Everyone knows that this disease is horrible.  Everyone knows that early detection is KEY.  Everyone knows to check your breasts once a month.  Everyone knows about breast cancer.  Everyone knows.

There have been walks and runs and fundraisers that raised billions of dollars for research and to build awareness.  A disease that was once new and unknown is now up front and in our faces.

Did you know that breast cancer isn't the leading cause of deaths in the United States?  All cancers are lumped together and it is still second.  Breast cancer is second of all cancers.  Yet it is all we hear about.

Number of deaths for leading causes of death
  • Heart disease: 597,689
  • Cancer: 574,743
  • Chronic lower respiratory diseases: 138,080
  • Stroke (cerebrovascular diseases): 129,476
  • Accidents (unintentional injuries): 120,859
  • Alzheimer's disease: 83,494
  • Diabetes: 69,071
  • Nephritis, nephrotic syndrome, and nephrosis: 50,476
  • Influenza and Pneumonia: 50,097
  • Intentional self-harm (suicide): 38,364
Because of all the money and awareness in the US, I am alive today to write about this.  I am very grateful.  Without someone pushing for awareness and research, and October being breast cancer month, we wouldn't know as much as we do about breast cancer.
But don't you think it is time we moved all that energy onto the other horrible diseases that are out there?  Is there any more awareness needed for breast cancer?  
So I am going to pay it forward and run races for other diseases besides breast cancer.  I will run them as a breast cancer survivor, but will run them to spread awareness of their ugliness.  I want them in your face as much as breast cancer is today.  I am going to try to be that someone who pushes like someone did for breast cancer.  
I think October should be Horrible Disease Awareness Month.  Okay, maybe that wouldn't take off with a name like that, but you get my point.  Every day, bring into light another horrible disease that needs our help.  I believe we can spread out and help other diseases while continuing to "Fight For The Cure".
I have a friend who has a niece with Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB).  Have you ever heard of it?  I dare you to read about it and not ache for that little girl within five minutes.  
I want to run for Ellie.  I want to raise money to bring awareness to her horrible condition.  No one should have to go through what she goes through on a daily basis.  I want to run to fight for her and get EB to the level of breast cancer.  The level of saving lives and lessening the symptoms like mine were lessened.  And the level where everybody is as knowledgeable on EB as they are on breast cancer.
I have another friend who lost her son to Ornithine Transcarbamylase (OTC).  Have you ever heard of it?  Walker stayed in the hospital for 19 days until he passed away.  My heart also aches for my friend.  To never bring your son home.  To only hold him among other people and wires and tubes.  I am not an expert (hence my point), but it is a genetic disease.  If they had gotten tested before, they could have prevented it.  But where is the awareness for that?  (This month is Infant Loss Month.  I wasn't aware?  Were you?)

http://www.healthline.com/galecontent/ornithine-transcarbamylase-deficiency#definition
I want to run for Walker.  I want to raise money for his terrible disease.  No one should have to go through what that family did.  I want to run to fight for him and get OTC to the level of breast cancer. The level of saving lives and lessening the symptoms like mine were lessened.  And the level where everyone is as knowledgeable on OTC as they are on breast cancer. 

My friend, Traci, is a fighter for breast cancer.  Always was.  Then she was diagnosed and now fights even harder.  

http://www.adventuresoftraci.blogspot.com/

There will always be people fighting for this disease.  I am going to let them continue to fight and save lives affected by breast cancer.  People like Traci helped save my life.

Now it is time for me to take that life that was saved, pay it forward, and save some lives dealing with other horrible diseases.

I guess it is time for me to hit the trails.  Who wants to join me?


My shoelaces for Ellie







Saturday, October 5, 2013

Get Me In Your Box!

After chatting with James from MailChimp for about an hour, I finally added a place for you to sign up to receive emails when I post.

Over on the right is a place for you to enter your
email.  Every time I post, you will receive it in
your inbox.

See you in your box!